He used to text you instantly, but now days come past, and he doesn’t text me back. Whenever I ask for the reason, he says that he is busy or were stuck with his jobs …
Sounds familiar?
There are many reasons behind the fact that he’s not texting you back. Let’s discuss some of them.
One simple text that solves all relationship issues…
When he doesn’t text you back…
He pulls away from you…
He does not know what he wants…
Your relationship is out of balance…
He does not want to commit…
Start with taking a short quiz:
Maybe you’re always after him and bothering him often with unattractive methods or gestures. Let him chase you always including let him text you first. You want to have high worth in his eyes and mind. If you’re texting him all the time that will turn him off and he will have the impression that you’re simply doing this because you’ve lots of free time and nothing to want to do else.
What to do if he is not texting you back:
1. Look at your texts when he’s not texting you back
If he is not texting you back, make sure that your texts are short, sweet and funny. Stand out from boring text messages, try to understand his taste and text based on his interest.
For example, sometimes he texts you simply something like, “how are honey” or where are you and what you’re doing now?”
Don’t just respond to him in the normal way, add some fun and arouse curiosity on him. You can text him this way:
Your guy: How are you doing my sweetheart
You: Doing better than before, know why?
2. Stop worrying about him not texting you back
First – don’t worry and think that he’s lost feelings for you and that he doesn’t like you. Why did you really find a decent way to stress preemptively? I’m never worried about it.
If you can’t really say what it is, just leave it alone. Please, don’t be obsessed about it.
Then, don’t send him a hundred messages to follow up. If you replied and he didn’t answer, just let it be. Don’t follow up like this:
Are you there?? Hey, hey
I realize you’ve just put that on Instagram!
Doing this is only going to make you seem mad and pitiful. Only don’t do it. If you haven’t heard from him for around three days, you may want to hit him with a follow-up email. F he really doesn’t reply? Well, note that no response is a response, too. Just accept it for what it is just carry on.
3. Step back and recompose
After everything, quit thinking too much about why he is not texting you back! Men don’t realize what a huge deal this is for us females. Most of the guys are surprised when I show them how many comments I get all the time about this. There’s obviously no issue here, so don’t build one!
Because his lack of reaction makes you feel sick with anxiety and concern than those feelings come from you. Everything inside you makes you feel afraid by failure, or else it builds on your emotions of being not pretty enough and worthless. yoNo number of messages from him will fix this. You have to look deep and get to the bottom of the matter, you are on your own.
When he stopped texting you back, only concentrate on you and be in a solid, mentally stable position. Rely on your degree of trust and your feelings of value. Concentrate on managing your impulses and preventing them from plummeting into the field of insanity. Rely on factors that are under your influence – you and your feelings. As opposed to the things beyond your influence, like him not texting you back.
One simple text that solves all relationship issues…
When he doesn’t text you back…
He pulls away from you…
He does not know what he wants…
Your relationship is out of balance…
He does not want to commit…
Start with taking a short quiz:
Do you want to know how to get your man obsessed over you by text? If you do, look at this post:
Dear Expert: Frequently asked questions
Everyone has his or her phone close by these days. A typical person is checking the smartphone screen every 2 minutes or so. Therefore, when he repeatedly says that he has not texted you back because he was busy, it means that you are not important to him anymore.
Sure, it happens sometimes that our mobile battery is dead or we forget the mobile somewhere else. It can be taken as a reason once or twice a month, but definitely not all the time.
The one thing you need to do when he is suddenly not texting you back is – wait instead of sending him more texts before he replies. The last thing you want is to come out like a hysterical one. Give him a chance to explain why he is ignoring you first.
When he doesn’t text back, you’re just stuck there, sitting in silence. It’s as if the world has stopped spinning. You want to rant about how rude he is but you feel the need to be civil.
You could make up some smutty excuse or come up with everything that’s wrong with him but let’s face it, we both know you’re not going to fixate on a guy who doesn’t text back. It seems pretty clear that he’s probably not into you.
But why? Is there something seriously wrong with the way you present yourself? Do you sound like a paranoid nut when you talk to him?
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